Relationships can make or break a story, and unless there's only one character in your book, relationships are imminent. If readers can't or don't understand the relationship, it could completely change the predicted outcome of the story or have readers rooting for the wrong character. It's either something that can be easily decided at the beginning of the story, or maybe you'd prefer to let them set their own relationship as the plot progresses. Either way, it's important to take these points into consideration:

• Your Characters as Individuals 

If you haven't figured out who your characters are as individuals, it's going to be very difficult to create a relationship between them. Your characters need to know who they are as much as you do, and they need to be aware of what they want. You wouldn't be able to know if you get along with someone else or not if you don't know if you agree with their views, right? It's the same thing with your characters. Even if it's something as simple as liking cheese on their burgers or not, these little details can build up to important decisions. And if you don't know from the start if your character likes cheese, when they're asked if they'd like a cheeseburger later on and they say yes, readers might notice that before, they weren't sure. See where it comes into play? Sure, opinions change over time, but not for no reason. If they start with an opinion and change it, that's a crucial part of character development that needs to be visited.

• Goals

This is important for your individual characters in the first place, but when you're deciding on relationships, this could play the vital factor in whether they become friends or enemies, or start off as one and become the other. Characters start off the story with goals that become clearer and (most of the time) less attainable as the plot progresses.  Do these characters share goals? Do they have opposing goals? Are they actively fighting against each other to attain their own? Do they want what the other has? All these are things you have to think about as well as where the end up at the resolution. Do their goals still oppose or are they still shared? How does that affect the way they feel about each other?

• General Questions

How did they meet? Was it intentional (did someone/something set it up?) or a coincidence? What are their jobs, if any? Maybe they met at work or school or getting coffee? do they have the same interests and that's what led them to meet? All of these can have an affect on what their relationship might be. If they're going to be a love interest, what attracted one to the other? What didn't? Think about questions like this when you're doing character building, and make sure you have most, if not all, of them answered, just to make it easier on yourself down the road!

• Dialogue

I could do an entire post on just dialogue, and I probably will, but good dialogue is also a good way to develop characters and their relationship. Just like you get to know people by talking to them, your characters can do this as well! Action is just one way to move the story along, but dialogue can be extremely important as well ad you're telling the story or emotions from the character's first-hand account. This is where your development really comes in, where we as readers can determine how two characters interact with each other and determine how we think it's going to play out in the end.

• Limitations

Listen, all people have limitations. All people have boundaries. Don't force characters to be together or even friends if they don't want to be. Not every story needs romance. Chemistry can exist in all types of ways. If it ends up they're just friends, or try a relationship and realize it doesn't work, that's okay! Alternatively, you can always mold and change characters as you see fit to make their relationship what you want, but make sure it doesn't impact the story if you're going to do that. Readers can tell if it seems forced and unnatural.

Welcome to Daylight Saving Time, the best time of the year, in my opinion! The days are longer, the weather's starting to warm up, and the bushes in my yard are finally getting some green on them!

With all the nice weather, we often begin to feel more motivated to work, whether it's outside or cleaning the house or getting started on all those projects we've been putting off all winter. There's a renewed sense of "I can do this!" But sometimes, it can be dangerous. 

We're all familiar with taking on too much, especially as editors. Especially when we're trying to grow our business and get as many clients as possible. It's a great prospect, believe me, and it can be effective if you play your cards right and have all the time in the world. However, if you're not used to doing that, it can be extremely detrimental to your mental health as well as your client base.

When you're working for someone else and trying to prove yourself, it's so important to take care of yourself too and not put too much on your plate. While a client might think it's great that you always have availability, your quality of work will go down if you're trying to do too much at once. It's better to focus all your attention on one story than divide it up. This will create a higher probability of you not catching mistakes or not explaining yourself properly because you have so many different things to complete before the deadline. To combat that, extending your deadline too much might cause you to lose a client that can't wait that long, or that's on their own deadline.

I tried this and learned my limit very quickly. I can work on two projects at a time, with maybe something very quick while I'm working on those, but nothing more than that or I can't keep up. The stories blend together, I can't keep characters straight, and it's hard to bounce back and forth between stories and authors and styles; it just gets tiring. 

Potential clients are going to want to go for quality, not necessarily turnaround time. Good clients, that will become repeat clients, will wait on your schedule because they want you to work on their books, which is a much better feeling than stressing yourself out and exhausting yourself by trying to do too much. It'll be worth it in the end, and when it's over, you'll still enjoy editing instead of seeing it as a chore.

This is often the most difficult part of any endeavor - getting started. There are so many resources out there for writing and editing, and it can sometimes be a little overwhelming if you're just starting out. I know it was for me! But I've been doing this for years now, and while I'm not where I'd like to be yet in terms of business, it's a lot better than it was when I started, so for that, I'm grateful. So this post is for my fellow editors who are looking to start a business themselves! 

The first thing you need to do is brand yourself. Find your niche. And even if you don't think there's enough work. Believe me, there is. Plenty of people are writing and looking to publish, whether self or traditional, so there's not going to be a shortage of work, even with all the editors out there in the world! And if you ever feel like they're doing better than you (because there will be many that are doing better than you), they started out in the same place you are at one point.

Find what makes you the right person to edit. What do you love reading? That's what you're going to focus on editing. I've taken a few jobs here and there in genres that I don't necessarily read on a daily basis, which is fine, because it broadens your resume, but for the most part, I feel the most comfortable working on YA Fiction, and I have the most fun working on it! Showcase your skills and your personality. For me, I love making connections with people and being more than just their editor!

Set your prices. I started out way lower than I'm charging currently in order to get experience under my belt. This doesn't necessarily work for everyone, but I had steady income on top of editing, so anything I made from editing was just supplemental. Look around at other editors' prices and see what they're charging! You don't want to sell yourself short, but if you have no experience, you might find that clients don't want to pay your prices because they don't know how you work. Which comes to my next point!

Offer sample edits. This will also give you a good feel of the work you'll be receiving and it's an opportunity for a potential client to see how you work. Sometimes a client won't like your editing style after receiving their sample edit back and choose not to work with you. That's okay! I'd rather know up front than send them back a full manuscript of changes they won't like. Remember - it's their story. Not yours. If I was the one sending to an editor and didn't like their style, I'd definitely say so up front!

Make a website! Start out with a free one - there are plenty of sites that are easy to construct for beginners and offer easy site-building tools. This is a simple way to have everything you offer and your prices listed in one space, and it can show off who you are as an editor! Once you get enough business or feel comfortable, you can always purchase your domain so it won't have the host tag in it.

Promote yourself! This is a hard one, but most of your clients will come from social media. I've been doing this for six years and I've just now created a social media schedule and what to post every week/day/month so I stay relevant on feeds. Twitter is my main network, but I also post on Instagram and Facebook regularly - you never know who's going to see it!

And that's really it! You don't have to waste money on business cards or headshots or anything fancy when you're just starting out - that can come later IF you need it. Just put your name out there and start showcasing what you can do! You'd be surprised how much business will come to you by just advertising and connecting with people. Join editors' groups and writers' groups and make friends with people! There are postings all the time about editors who have a client they can't take on for whatever reason, asking for people to help. Maybe that's you!

All in all, make sure you have fun. Don't make it a chore. It will seem like it sometimes, but overall, if it's something you love to do and you're passionate about, let that show! 

​Good luck!

That's where I am right now in my WIP. I only have a few chapters to go. 

This weekend, I was helping my neighbor take down her swing set and we were talking about it. I told her that when I finish this book, I feel like it'll be the biggest accomplishment of my entire life. And it really means a lot to me, because I'm not sure if I've ever finished a story I started that wasn't for an assignment of some sort. And even then, I'm never happy with my endings. But I'm proud of this story. I'm proud of this book. And I want to get it out there and share it, because I think other people will enjoy it.

Now here's the scary part - the pressure I put on myself by saying that. I've been delaying finishing it for whatever reason for the past few years. I try NaNoWriMo every single year in order to just finish what little I have left and it never seems to happen. I give myself a goal for December, by the end of the year. It doesn't happen. I wanted to finish by the end of January. Part of this is because I do work a full time job on top of owning an editing business, so I don't get as much time to write as I'd like (who does?). But I think part of it might be a fear of actually finishing it.

I keep telling myself that writing the first draft is the hard part. And in some regard, I know that's the truth. Once I finalize the story and finish tying up the plot, the rest is a combination of editing and pitching with a little bit of luck. But I'm not looking forward to the rejection that I know will inevitably come, though I'm confident that SOMEONE will enjoy my story enough to give that first five-star review or maybe a publisher will pick it up. It's the unknown that I'm nervous about - is that what's holding me back?

I haven't really thought about it like that before, but I'm sure it's there in the back of my mind somewhere along with the fear of failure, and, honestly, the fear of success. Something new. I'm sure I'll get over it in time, once I actually do finish and start the next steps. 

I just wanted to put this out there today because I've been kind of impersonal with my previous blog posts and I wanted to give a little insight into what I'm feeling right now in case anyone else is in the same boat and doesn't feel like anyone else will know what's going on.

Finishing a book is a HUGE accomplishment, no matter who you are. So be proud of that. Be proud of your books. Be proud of your stories. Let it become a part of you. You're a writer, whether you take that on as an official job title or not. That's what we do. We're creators. Making something that lets people escape into our worlds when they're having a tough time on their own.

So just jump in. The deep end may not be as scary as it looks from the surface.

This week's prompt was provided by Reedsy's random prompt generator!
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Your characters are a photographer who is far from home and a student who grows carnivorous plants.

Write a story about a fear of failure. It kicks off in a hookah lounge with a bachelor party gone wrong. Note that someone in the story is just emerging from an unhealthy relationship.

But there's a twist! The story takes place in multiple timelines.

Have fun!

Hey everyone! Here's the prompt for this week! Feel free to leave your stories as comments! I'd love to read them all!

You were born with the ability to make people blurt out whatever's currently on their minds. One night, as you sleepily make your way to your bedroom, you accidentally trigger your ability. From the closet door, you hear a muffled yell: "That's the one I'm supposed to kill, right?"

Taken from www.reddit.com/r/WritingPrompts